Back to basics

I did some modeling for a new friend on Sunday. He and I share a fondness for the traditional rope + duct tape/bandana bondage that is usually the sort of thing you see on TV, in movies, etc. As I've mentioned before, that is what got me interested in bondage to begin with.

One of the nice things about doing my modeling thing was, on top of having some nice pictures, I got to be tied up like the heroes I saw growing up. I first discovered I was interested in bondage from when I was really young, and I had no interest in sex. Bondage WAS sex. It was strange that I was so turned on by it, but it interested me.

During this year, I experimented with a lot of different ways of being tied and tormented. My friends and contacts lists grew exponentially. My calendar was booked. Things were constantly in motion, both sexually and in my personal life. Everything zoomed by.

So it felt good to return to my kinks in their purest form. With all of this change going on in my life, it's good to know I am still rooted and have things that still are a part of me. I've learned this year that I need to take action to solve some of the biggest problems in my life.

But sometimes I just need to be still.

Happy and safe playing, everyone.

- V